Everyone has their own language based on how they grew up, their experiences with other people, what they learn and how they learn. During phone sex, people also have their own individual language. Some people are quieter than others.
While other people are loud and speak a lot. Make sure you listen to their breath as a sign of how turned on they are possibly becoming. There are also many things to keep in mind when you are having phone sex for the first time with someone.
First, the person on the other line may feel shy so it’s a good idea to check in with them prior to getting down to the kinky stuff. Make sure the person on the other end feels comfortable with you. Phone sex is better when the connection is strong, just like in person dating.
So build a steady flow, get to know the other person on the end of the line and learn what turns them on. Try things that you know you enjoy and see how the other person responds.
Case in hand, listening and trying new things are important in phone sex. Give the person the opportunity to try whatever they like. Be open about fantasies and role-plays but don’t let yourself go past your own personal limits.
As every individual is different, each time you have phone sex with someone new expect it to be slightly different. Let it flow naturally into whatever it turns into.
After the first time, if you and your phone friend liked it and want to try it again, perhaps have a conversation about what you want to try out. This in itself can really heat up the chat line and make both parties horny for more. The name of the game is exploration while having fun! So go ahead and give it a try!
